Disconnection at end of games causing punishments instead of rewards

This keeps happening every so often

I had just won a FUT Champs match, by quite a big score line, and it had finished up and when I pressed advance to go back the FUT menu, a message popped up along the lines of "Please retry the servers, you appear to have disconnected"

So, I press retry as it was the only option, and it completely logged me out of Ultimate Team and I was at the Main Menu. I tried to get back into Ultimate Team several times, as a message popped up saying that there was a lot of traffic in the servers, or something like that.

After finally managing to get back in, a message came up and said "It seems that you disconnected from your last online match. Disconnecting from matches affects your 'Did Not Finish (DNF)' Modifier, which reduces the coins you receive from future matches." 

I find this truly unfair - I would understand if I had left half way through, even if I was winning, but the game had finished and I was only trying to claim my winnings. Not only now do I not gain those very important points AND have had points taken away, but I receive a reduced number of coins in future matches. This may explain a little why I receive so few coins in my matches now as this isn't the first time.

EA please fix this, and perhaps reward my ungiven points and coins