Game is unplayable

I'm not sure where to start, to be honest. Still, I will start with this, I have been a gamer for almost my entire life and have been a programmer/SWE for the past 8 years, and I have never in my life seen a worse connection in a game in my life as bad as ea's (supposedly a big company) biggest title fc25 (previously FIFA).

I play on 50 constant ping (according to the in-game ping indicator, ea's match history, and other third-party apps) with minimal to no packet loss or ping disparity and the game does not feel like 50 ping I know that from experience it feels over 100, and I'm being generous, I could sum up my rivals games in just the following, making perfectly timed tackles and intercepts just to have the player I just tackled tackle it back in no time and already scoring a 1 on 1, I can't even receive a ball and its already intercepted or tackled, I clearly (visually) see the opponents player fouling me or even on a shot and I don't get a call, I can't even run when sprinting with 99 pace either rapid+/quickstep+ TOTY players and I still get caught in a second.

I will say the game is inconsistent, but I guess it is too consistently inconsistent.