Lost connection and DNF

Trying to do the winter wildcards tournament 3 times. First time I got kicked out of ultimate team and you gave me a DNF warning. WTF? Next to times lost connection immediately. I would like to be able to get that 2k xp, but your crappy servers aren’t letting me.  Can you ( EA) just give me the xp so I avoid all the frustration of what’s supposed to be a fun game?