Sorry to hear about your problem. Unfortunately there's nothing anyone here can do for you.
The AHQ is for "player-to-player" technical self-help and game-play discussions.
We're all just fellow gamers, doin' the best we can...
Fixing this requires "official" support from the EA Game Advisors.
They are the only ones who can look under the covers at your account and change anything with it.
As the NOTICE at the top-right of every forum says:
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Sounds like you're having account/code issues.
After getting to the Help Center and filling out the required information, (Product/Problem/Platform)
look for the "Chat Now", "Call Now", or "Email Now" buttons, not the AHQ "Ask Now" one. (You've already done that!)
The options you see may vary depending on your region and the time-of-day.
If you select "Chat Now" or "Call Now", be sure you have enough time (at least one hour) to wait before being connected to someone. 😕mileyfrustrated:
Good Luck!