When will it stop

Love how the answer is always skill issue. Sometimes it is sometimes your game just sucks "shrugs" I often feel like I have very little controll of my player. Playing d forcing someone to the outside. See an opertunity to land a hit.  No wait he's doubling back so let off pulling back on the right stick and there I go sucked into animation I have no controll over.  Or you do line up the hit and pfft womp womp just rolls right off him. I'm full green your blinking red!  Womp womp. It's like when your going in and made a great move or cut on the d and womp womp your guy won't shoot. Idk anymore seems like all the post on here are saying the same thing and it's womp womp 🤷‍♂️