Mission issue

Has anyone else had an issue when starting a mission arround the map solo and it puts you into a multi player lobby i cant figure out a way of getting out of it other than restarting the game it isnt that anoying early on in the day but when i only have time in the evening to play its anoying to have to wait 5-7 mins just to get through the player queue again and i have bo explanation why its happening

Another one is the spectator ar mission with vee i cant progress after teleporting to an open party player and using the emotes and messages to comunicate because no player pops up and even if i do them right after telaporting to them it dosent work