So I got another response.
Short story: They can't help me over email, i'll have to call them which is to much of a hassle for spam mail.
Long story:
The email I received-
"Hi there.
I am Alexandre, from Star Wars™: The Old Republic™ Customer Service.
Thanks for the pictures you have sent.
I have verified that they are legitimate pictures and the email recipient is also legit.
This means you must have an account that was one based on the email adress [edit: email address removed] but no longer is.
You ahev teo options:
-either you can block completely these communications from your outlook directly so they will appear in your spam, as they will be fitered,
or,
-you can also contact directly by phone so we can try t locate that account.
https://help.ea.com/en-us/help/star-wars/star-wars-the-old-republic/swtor-support#subscriber
This has unfortunately to be dealt only by phone, as we are delaing we sensitive information.
As always, at BioWare and EA, we strive to provide you with the world's best customer experience for the world's best games. We're always interested in hearing back from you, the player, about your experience with our Game Advisors so that we can improve our service to you.
We would appreciate it if you could take the time to fill out a short survey about your most recent support experience with us. We would greatly appreciate any feedback you may have as we're committed to making sure you always have a personal and positive connection to our game, our people, and our community."
First of all, they tell me to mark emails as spam? so they will be filtered which is fine... I guess...
2nd, they tell me to call them so they can help "locate" my account which is no longer with them. Which can not be done via Email because they are "delaing" sensitive information. In my experience, calling a company for information is the last thing they want for verification because ANYBODY could be on that phone calling for someone else's information whereas email is more secure because only I have access to it, which this is the exact email i'm inquiring about! So none of this makes sense, it's just more obstacles for me to jump through.
It's no big deal, I definitely did not think it was going to be this hard to ask to remove myself from their mailing list especially since I emailed them from that exact email account.
I don't agree with how they handled the situation however, they at least responded and I give them props.