I deleted the lot and placed it again still didnt fix the problem for me so i just deleted the whole neighbourhood and i havent touched the game since because of the bugs and because i dont want any of my neighbourhoods currupted or broken or anything like that ! the lot was a maxis lot the 88 road to nowhere lot i think the one with all the stores in strangetown !
but for me right now the bugs are too much and about the autonomy bug or whatever it is i tried mods to fix it i tried removing the objects and adding them within a few sim days but nothing the sims autonomy is still the same obsessing too much with objects to the point when i try to control them they wont do what i control them to do and all they do is obsess over a specific thing to the point one of my sims wasnt obeying when i instructed them to go eat and they were obsessing over turning on and off the tv all the time to the point they died of starvation !
So yeah that happened so i think i will stay away from the sims 2 for a while and play the sims 3 or the sims 4 ! Sims 2 is still my favorite but the bugs and the problems are too much for me right now !