@bekkasan oh I hadn't thought of directing a sim could interfere with their wishes!!!
Yes I am with you there! I want to be sure my sims really want and choose the sim as their partner too, so I totally understand! we are romantics and want that romance for our sims! and I am sure that you love all your sims it is very evident and you are so good to them!
you're right, just because Bekka hasn't wish for or declared anything doesn't mean it wont happen in time! At least she doesn't just go for the fun flirt and then change her mind the very next day, like my Victor just has done! sheesh is that frustrating! and it Wasn't the man-chin because it was after I fixed it! Oh boy, maybe he LIKED her man-chin and now I wrecked the relationship! :open_mouth: :D :D
I look forward to Bekka's path to healing, that sounds really good! And good for personal growth!
But I have to be honest with ya, I like the easy way, if I ever knew a person could heal me without making me do all the hard hard work, you Know I would go for that!
''This is a rough month memory wise for me so I may have put too much of my personal emotions in it.''
I'm so sorry my friend (((hugs))) it shouldn't be allowed to happen to such a kind person.