Missing some menu on horse

aodoherty​  Since you added the horse to your household via cheats, the menu options might not have refreshed, or the game might still be treating the horse as wild.  Does this happen after you quit and reload the game?  What if you MC reset the horse, then quit/delete caches/reload again?  What if you add it to a different household and then back to your own?  The idea is to try to unstick whatever isn't updating.

You could also try a DebugEnabler Fix Homeworld command, run on City Hall.

I cheated the riding skill up to level 8, then was able to adopt it. then It shows Full menus. 

Tried to add him by cheat 

Brush menu has gone 

Used MC and add sim 

Same as by cheat 

I will try fix homeworld and update 

Tried but no luck. It has been several days since I added her to his family, so quit and reloaded about 5-6 times so far.  I always delete the 5 cache files(includes social) whenever I start game. 

[update]

Reloaded one more time after taking out all mods and ccs. 

[update]

Moved to a new world after saving them in edit town mode, now it works.. 😭 But I'm still in the challenge about earning 100k without jobs and careers, so wouldn't like to move to a new world until fisnishing this challenge. Now I can say it's a glitch from added via cheat in my game.

aodoherty​  What if you evict the household in Edit Town and place it back on the lot?

Separately, you could add a different sim to your household, move that sim and the horse out, quit, reload, and move the other sim and horse back into your household via Friendly interactions.  Then you could TA the extra sim or just punt them to another lot.

Thanks! Evicting and replacing worked.  :D No idea why I haven't thought about evicting in Edit town mode lol 

aodoherty​  It's a bit disruptive, so I don't like suggesting it to people who use mods unless those mods don't help the issue.  But it's great for those who don't use mods or as a second-line intervention for pretty much anything.

Glad you got it fixed.