Online Platform suggestions MMO

I just worry about the safety of it.  I think of forums as a good guinea pig how Sims Community relates to each other and right now they seem more divided than ever before.  I think it would be safer having the characters be gender neutral across the board that way there are no restrictions on what their characters want to wear kind of like how Animal Crossing works.  It just varies if Simmers want to role play as another character or as themselves across the board, so having the freedom and removing stereotypes would benefit the Sims community a lot and bring back the you rule direction to the franchise.  Characters should be able to dress in whatever and honestly would give them a leg up in technology versus other MMO games.  I also think the design of side games are a better fit for a Sims MMO such as medieval or castaway.  Without that danger and goals and exploration the game would get boring fast like the Sims Mobile did for several of my friends.