How do you not get bored of a family?

I've found I just accept that I get bored. I find:
I love the struggle when sims are new and poor and skillless.
Then they succeed and reach high/top career and skills, so I say to myself 'ok have a kid', then they raise their kid perfectly with amazing achievements and skills, that kid grows up and then...
I'm bored of the original adults, I'm bored of the kid who as a teen can reach top of skills ladders without cheating.
So I move on, create another difficult scenario, and forget that family.

I wonder if there is a mod out there where skills must be used to be kept?

I try to focus on each new generation, so I figure out who I want the children to grow up to be. This gives a direction, and if you have multiple children it helps with boredom if you give them each a different goal. I also try to choose a different pack feature to focus on per generation to keep things interesting.. For example: if my current couple lives in Sulani working in conservation, I’ll send their child to live in Del Sol Valley to try to become famous. I tend to move on with the next generation once they grow into a YA, (mostly because I find elders boring) but rotation play can be fun too since it mixes up the households a bit.

Don’t play as much. I only play an hour a day, occasionally two.

Don’t take it too seriously. Have a plan for your sims, but be flexible. Life, even a simulated one, can throw a curveball. Adjust your plans. Allow for the unseeable.

Once, back in sims 3, my kid’s babysitter stole my main sims motorcycle. I had him see her on the side, then stole it back.

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My characters all have storylines. I cheat skills/money, whatever I need to, to stick with the storyline so that it's not just a grind of keeping needs up.

I have 3 families, all living in Sulani and good friends with each other. BUt I give them real stories and that's the trick.

I have my mixed family detective couple. She had 3 kids she adopted before meeting him, and he had 6 with his ex. wife, 3 which he took to live with him (and his ex has custody of the other three). He gets along with all his kids and the ones living with his ex. come visit him on a regular basis but his kids don't like their bio mum.. they tolerate her and visit once in awhie but mostlly they don't.

Then there's my stay at home dad and writer mum family with 9 kids and (currently) two foster kids. They've had 5 bio kids, and adopted 4, some from foster care. The mum dreamed of being an archaelogist but dropped out of school to have a family. She's never regretted it, but passed on her love of archaelogy to the oldest daughter on a "Welcome to teenagerhood" trip to the jungle. That oldest just finished her history degree and has been to the jungle several more times and that's where she met her husband. One of their other children, (adopted son, 3rd oldest child age wise) is married to the one of the oldest from the previous family now and together they are taking after their parents in raising a big adopted family.

And then there's China and Erwin (the one premade I play). Best friends from childhood, China moved to sulani (where she met the other families and became friends) and Erwin came to crash on her couch after hearing rumous of mermaids, cuz he's always loved a good conspiracy! (He never found them, I don't play occults). Eventually they fell in love and they have 3 kids, Itzel and Knox are teens and Gigi is a child. China is a conservationist and working hard to clean up the island (they just revamped their house to be eco-friendly with the new pack)

All the families lives are entwined in some ways, and, like I said, I just cheat money/needs cuz I don't want to play a grinding game, I want to tell a story. I do'nt want my Sim to have to leave the jungle when I'm not done with my story there, cuz she can't afford another vacation day, or whatever. Each member of the family has their own interests/personality.. I decorate their rooms and homes accordingly, I take time with them to establish friendships, backsgtories etc etc. etc.

I create a hobby or interest path for each Sim in the house. Like yoga, painting, running, pseudo-triathlons I host. A coffee lover who always hits the coffee shop in the AM or a weekend bar crawl host. Additionally, I pick a career path for either one or both adult Sims to pursue that kind of matches their individual interest. Or I send one to Uni to become a lawyer. ?

You just have to make time really uniquely looking and appealing. Give them one bad trait, or trait you’ve never used before, honestly, CC plays a big factor in my interest in my sims, big time, I couldn’t play with sims given the terrible hair in CAS for my sims of color, also a few mods keep the game so fresh and spicy, and I try to utilize all of the packs I own, I’ve been having a blast nonstop after a dry spell a few months ago, my mods,cc and lack gameplay keep me super addicted.

Don’t be afraid to let things fall apart, make couples fight, allow children to get into trouble, get on spouses, have teens break curfew, socialize with as many NOSC as possible for storytelling purposes.
Instead of playing aimlessly, try to sit and really figure out the lives of your sims, figure out who they are and remember you can create the story and make them go where you want them to go in their lives.

I like generational play so for me that keeps it fun. I love seeing how my families evolve over different generations. I also play rotational as well so for me I'm often switching families.

@SimAlexandria I do the same thing! In the beginning I was just playing normal letting sims work come home and take care of the kids and it got boring.
Once I started adding my own stories, characters background characters etc. I don't get enough

Basically OP you need imagination to spice up their life! ? I also enjoy the struggle more than the rich easy life.