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6 years ago

Is it possible to have casual romantic relationships with a ton of sims? (Update need help)

I feel like I wanna sim to sleep around with other sims, not held down to one partner. To have many casual partners in that department, basically a slut. But I'm not sure if it's possible to do that, or if I'd have to have my slutty sim flirt others up constantly, then get to know them to be allowed chances to woohoo with other sims. I would love to hear from other's if they tried doing this before.

I'd like to skip the whole getting to know them part and just have them woohoo. I know it's not a job in the game and for good reason xD But it's so funny to see the pillows and blanket being kicked up XD. So please be kind to me.

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So I played last night before this post gotten any answers. And I gotten my slutty sim to flirt up the mom of the household while the teens & her husband were out of the house XD And I got her all flirty, but there wasn't any woohoo option so I went with First Kiss. Then the woohoo came up :smiley: They woohooed until exactly the time her husband gotten home from work! XDDD It was so beautifully timed! The husband wasn't any the wiser to what happened yet XD But I'm sure drama will happen when he does learn about it. I stopped playing soon after cause it was midnight by then.

And don't worry, my slutty sim isn't related to the family. I made him to not be related at all so there wasn't anything wrong family wise. xD But it's messed up that I got a family caring, married woman to woohoo with a slutty male that to her knowledge randomly lives in her house XDD

Also I think I messed up my slutty sim by having him sleep with her. Cause I read on a different post that the player choices what romantic preference the sims have. So I planned for my slutty sim to be gay, yet I had him sleep with the mom of the house. :neutral: I wasn't thinking at the time. It was perfect timing that everyone left for school and work so I had them woohoo. But if that other post is right about whoever sims romantically interact with first chooses their preference, then I accidentally made my slutty sim straight :cry: I think I'll have to deal him and start over, so he can get with the husband first so then he'd be gay. But I plan to have him be woohoo crazy and sleep with just about everyone (of age) yet mostly men.

So did I mess up and made him straight by having him sleep with a woman? If so, then I'll have to start over with him. Please help and be kind.

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  • If you have Get Together, you can make a club that focuses on WooHoo. During club gatherings, you can sleep with another sim with barely any effort. Then you can Ask to Just be Friends and remove any romantic feelings. Since you'll still have a good friendship wih that sim, you can repeat the process over and over again.
  • "Gordy;c-17358635" wrote:
    If you have Get Together, you can make a club that focuses on WooHoo. During club gatherings, you can sleep with another sim with barely any effort. Then you can Ask to Just be Friends and remove any romantic feelings. Since you'll still have a good friendship wih that sim, you can repeat the process over and over again.


    Omg I was thinking of that. If many sims could woohoo together XDDDDDD That sounds so funny! Aw that club better been filled with beds xD I only have the base game. Get Together sounds hilarious! And "Ask to just be friends" removes all feelings between sims even after woohoo nice :D So maybe my slutty sim won't get tied down by past sims he's be with just to woohoo XD Thanks for the information! :smiley:
  • If you want to quickly modify relationship levels https://simscommunity.info/2017/11/20/the-sims-4-modifyrelationship-cheat-has-been-updated/

    I use it ALL the time in my game when I want to manipulate relationship levels without actually going through the interactions
  • "aprilrose;c-17359167" wrote:
    If you want to quickly modify relationship levels https://simscommunity.info/2017/11/20/the-sims-4-modifyrelationship-cheat-has-been-updated/

    I use it ALL the time in my game when I want to manipulate relationship levels without actually going through the interactions


    Cool thanks :smiley:
  • "Anitalifegurl;d-970848" wrote:

    So did I mess up and made him straight by having him sleep with a woman? If so, then I'll have to start over with him. Please help and be kind.


    No, you didn't mess up. However, you likely made him bi.

    All of sims have 2 sexual orientation metrics: Attraction points to male and female. Attraction points to male and female in new sim are set to 0. It will increase everytime you do romantic interaction.When your sim do it to male sims, your sim' attraction point to male will increase. When your sim do it to female sims, your sim' attraction point to female will increase.

    So there is possibility that both of your sim' attraction to male and female scores achieves 100. In this case, your sim will be equally automatically inclined to flirt with the two gender.

  • The beguiling trait is great but also so this the very friendly trait with a sim that has max charisma. The very friendly trait makes any sim become a friend just by introducing yourself, but if your sim also has max charisma they can use the enchanting introduction which makes both the romance bar and friendship bar go up from there it only takes a few romantic gestures to get to woohoo. If you also have the beguiling trait you could score super fast. (Lol)

    Also the player trait from doing the serial romantic aspiration will make it so other sims don’t get jealous but that’s the fun part of having a player for a sim so I never use it.

    It’s also easy to change their gender preferences in this game just start flirting with males more then females
  • "hmae123;c-17359546" wrote:
    The beguiling trait is great but also so this the very friendly trait with a sim that has max charisma. The very friendly trait makes any sim become a friend just by introducing yourself, but if your sim also has max charisma they can use the enchanting introduction which makes both the romance bar and friendship bar go up from there it only takes a few romantic gestures to get to woohoo. If you also have the beguiling trait you could score super fast. (Lol)

    Also the player trait from doing the serial romantic aspiration will make it so other sims don’t get jealous but that’s the fun part of having a player for a sim so I never use it.

    It’s also easy to change their gender preferences in this game just start flirting with males more then females


    Thanks so much :smiley: I've been working on getting the charisma up. It takes forever just like most of the skills. I don't know if I can afford the beguiliing trait but thanks :smile: Thanks for letting me know what maxed out charisma can do :3

    I didn't know that about the serial romantic aspiration. But maybe that's for the best so sims won't hate him XD Lol, all he wants is trying to spread some LOVE in my game :3 Don't worry I kept him, so I'll have him be a flirt with more guys so he loves men Thanks so much :smiley:
  • "MrSunshine;c-17359346" wrote:
    "Anitalifegurl;d-970848" wrote:

    So did I mess up and made him straight by having him sleep with a woman? If so, then I'll have to start over with him. Please help and be kind.


    No, you didn't mess up. However, you likely made him bi.

    All of sims have 2 sexual orientation metrics: Attraction points to male and female. Attraction points to male and female in new sim are set to 0. It will increase everytime you do romantic interaction.When your sim do it to male sims, your sim' attraction point to male will increase. When your sim do it to female sims, your sim' attraction point to female will increase.

    So there is possibility that both of your sim' attraction to male and female scores achieves 100. In this case, your sim will be equally automatically inclined to flirt with the two gender.



    Thanks so much! :smiley: This really helped me understand attraction in the game :smiley: I needed to know more about it for my other sims, I have a family and I don't know who the teens in the family should go for lol. And this really helped me with my slutty sim. Thank you! :smiley:
  • Build a romance sim so you get the Alluring trait, build high level Charisma, get the Great Kisser and Beguiling perk traits. You could probably try complete Serial Romantic to get the Player reward trait, but that will more likely happen as a result of doing all this

    EDIT: And player sims are whatever sexuality you want them to be, straight gay or bi.
  • "WaytoomanyUIDs;c-17362104" wrote:
    Build a romance sim so you get the Alluring trait, build high level Charisma, get the Great Kisser and Beguiling perk traits. You could probably try complete Serial Romantic to get the Player reward trait, but that will more likely happen as a result of doing all this

    EDIT: And player sims are whatever sexuality you want them to be, straight gay or bi.


    Thanks :3 All these answers been great :smiley: And I've been excited to try to get high Charisma, yet it takes so long to build up and that's so boring to have a sim talking into a mirror :/ But I don't know how else to focus on increasing Charisma only.

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