Since I turned off the weather related deaths I haven't had a single death notification. I do have a pair of elders who are friends with one of my Sims -- the wife is the head of the club she belongs to -- so I'm just gritting my teeth waiting. And the elders have two young children, so I may end up moving them in with my Sims (which would fit the storyline because my female Sim can't have children); I have MCCC set to adopt orphaned/neglected kids into a family instead of deleting them from the game taken by Social Services, so a bit of work with Manage Households would do it.