> @SimGuruSemedi said:
> Hey folks - I've been messing around with this in game, and although it has been difficult at times I've been able to complete it. I'm going to have a chat with our designers about re-thinking if it's balanced properly; the intent certainly isn't for people to need to nearly destroy their relationship to complete this aspiration.
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> Try this...
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> For the Sim that's trying to complete the aspiration, pick a Sim other than your spouse and do Mean socials on them until your own Sim turns angry from the conversation. Now, have your Sim do a single Mean social on their spouse, and then immediately apologize afterwards. The aspiration should complete at that point. Your spouse shouldn't have to do anything, and it shouldn't matter what emotion they're currently in. Hope that helps!
This actually worked. I had to findangle with this a lot more than I would have liked but at least I got it done. I had the spouse that wanted to complete the aspiration be mean to some random person outside her house. They fought, and she declared the person an enemy. Took a nap for her dazed moodlet to go away (because she lost the fight) and the angry moodlet to take hold. Yelled at my spouse, then smooth apology, completed aspiration.
Fighting is nice because it fills up the hate meter between the two sims quick, and then it allows you to declare someone an enemy. I couldn't get the other sim to make my sim angry, I had to declare the other sim an enemy and it always make my sim angry when I do that. My problem was, and you may encounter it, my sim was always winning the fights and gaining confidence boosts that would outweigh her anger. Just hold off on the declaration of anger for an hour after you fight (just keep doin mean stuff to the sim you fought for an hour) so you have a one hour window where your sim isn't confident while angry.
Like I said, a little over complicated and forced but at least it's all done.