soulmate aspiration glitch

I am having the same problem. While I doubt that its impossible. I would definitely say its broken to some degree. I did as others said, made the opposite spouse mad through conversations with other random sims and done one mean interaction with the sim trying to achieve the goal. I don't know if it was because the spouse sim was VERY angry or if it simply did not work. I will have to keep trying.

This is something that needs to be fixed.