Same here, their recent updates have been a bit too much for me to deal with and their last expansion pack did not last long for me. I think the main issue is that it feels like everything is repeating, which is probably common when you have played the game for a long time... but it doesn't help that some game features doesn't feel developed or are not very engaging at all.
The amount of support and development is not enough right now for me to feel like buying anything more for this game either... I have always played other games besides the sims 4 but now I will probably look more into playing even more different games.
If EA/Maxis thinks that shipping a game changing feature like wants and fears without checking if they can be turned off and also releasing an expansion pack where the gameplay for the main feature, attending high school, consists of me watching my sims not doing much more than just looking at the teacher counts as gameplay is okay then I don't know what to tell them.