Where do the dead sims go?

Yeah sims that live not in world don't leave tombstones unless someone from your active household happens to be on the same lot with them when they die. Just means it's important to house any sims you're really attached too so that they're urn has somewhere to be attached to when they die and you're not around.

"GalacticGal;c-16324709" wrote:
Banished to the Netherland.

I read that as Neverland...

To limbo to be culled after what feels like an eternity of lonely emptiness and the loss of all your friends and family even a best furry friend forgets so they weep alone.......lol, I think it's still a work in progress in one save I wasn't playing a house but I checked in and while I wasn't there the dog died and an urn was there. Though I abandoned Olivia's parents when she moved in with her spouse and there were not urns for them.

I can confirm thanks to my sim Gregory's unfortunate but timely death from old age that, at the very least, members of played households who die of old age while not the active household do spawn a tombstone on the home lot (possibly only if they die on said home lot). I have no idea about anyone or anywhere else as of yet.

I've had my Sims visit other houses and I've seen urns there. That makes me happy because now I can have my Sims mourn them (if they actually knew the deceased)and I can build or download a cemetery if I want to.

Today my sim went to visit his toddler on a lot he'd never been to before and two tombstones were sat out front of the house. My sim had only known them as acquaintances and had never visited the lot before.
Also, my sim was at a karaoke bar in the city when another sim died, I put the tombstone in his inventory and put it in the park in Willow Creek.

Gone to that great big hard drive in the sky! :bawling:

I created my own cemetery. All of my deceased Sims go there; the lot is classified as a park, so Sims will visit and I’ll find them mourning the dead.
It’s simple and easy enough. I just have my Sim take the deceased Sim’s urn to the lot and plop it down somewhere.