got the new update but my sims cant woohoo in bed

I just bought the Growing together pack and started a new family. i tried to get the parents to woohoo and try for baby in the bed, but it didnt work. the options were there, but whenever i clicked on them neither of my sims would try to make an advancement or even talk about it. I tried to reset the bed and the sims, change the bed, etc. the bed is not against a wall. i was able to woohoo in the hot-tub, but it still isnt working in the bed. they can both sleep in the bed, and their relationship is maxed out.