It was crashing to the EA app but I think I found the cause. It apparently was a house from the gallery. I started adding saves 1 by 1 and got to the last one I had played. There was a house that I had just downloaded right before this started and it had some items I have not seen before...I thought maybe that could be it. I deleted it and so far I have been able to go back in....fingers crossed that once I add my cc back all is well..lol. Thank you so much for that hint as I would not have thought of that! You really did save my sanity and it seems my game as well!
Edited....well it's back. I was able to play about an hour, had stuff to do. Saved and when I cam back just now that house is back and it's crashing again...and now my library has disappeared. I'm not a happy camper..