I had sims 4 city living but now its gone

All your expansions, game packs and stuff packs go under one picture in Origin. Follow these steps:
- Go to 'Game Library' in Origin
- Right click 'The Sims 4' and choose 'Game Details
A overlay moves in
- Have a look under the 'Extra Content' tab
There should all your Game Pack, Stuff packs and expansions packs show up.

If that doesn't help, try contacting EA:
http://help.ea.com/en/contact-us/new/

where it shows all the packs you can add on for the game, where it says city living it just says to buy it so it acts like i don't have it

Give these a try:

The game no longer shows up in Origin

Try the following things: 

• Restart Origin.
• Log out and back in and use the email address instead of the user name. Make sure to use the one you used to register the game in the first place.
• Reinstall Origin.
• Restart your router/modem.
• Make sure the game isn't hidden by accident. To check, put the filter to Hidden Games. If it's there, right-click on the game to unhide ((click on the spoiler below to view an exemplary screenshot))
  
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• Get in touch with an EA Game Advisor.

Source: http://answers.ea.com/t5/The-Sims-4/FAQ-Serial-Codes-Game-Activation-and-Download-Issues/td-p/4228232

i have tried the first two options already and it did nothing to clarify i didn't buy the game from origin. also when i was reinstalling the sims 4 it wasn't in the downloads queue.