Grilled Cheese Aspiration: 'Talk about grill cheese' not appearing

Hi crinrict​ 

Thanks so much for your response. I did check all the menus. The friendly menu in the screenshot does not give a 'more choices' option. Grill Cheese should have its own pie menu withing the Friendly menu. I have only been playing in this main save file since the last update and sticking with my supersim family. I have a ghost who is working on this aspiration and I am grafting to get a death flower for Ambrosia.