My reborn Sim has the fear of death trait, but the discuss fear option is not showing up on either elders or ghosts. At this point she's befriended several ghosts and elders, but it just never comes up as an option. (Yes, I saw the suggestion that she try with an enemy, but that's not how it has worked previously, is not what the "want" says and I don't consider that a solution.)
I've occasionally had this problem with elder sims not being able to discuss their fear of death with other elders/ghosts, but this is a reborn young adult.
I have never had the option the give Grim a Death Flower to cure this fear. And she was never able to meet Grim, despite her purchase of a death flower at a retail shop.
This is my regular game. Tested copy with Mods removed.
If this is already reported, apologies. Fears along with Bucket List and Aspiration goals seem to have become unpredictable. If one meets the conditions as stated, they should complete. No messing about trying to figure out if there's a secret trick.
Edit By Crinrict: Added pack tag to title.