[LS] Cupid Corner Matches Spawn with Different Age & Gender on Date

I have a similar issue.

I married a gallery pick from cupid's corner.  He was normal, but then he developed a female voice (despite it being male in CAS and on our original date) and when he aged up to an Elder he sometimes appears as a young adult again (this may have happened when he was an adult, but I never noticed as they look the same).  I originally thought I forgot to age him up, so I made another cake, but he can't blow out the candles because he is an Elder already, even though he appears as a young adult (although sometimes he still has the grey hair...sometimes).  If you go into CAS, he is an elder. In live mode, he's a young adult.

Honestly, at this point I can't wait for him to die.  It's weird inviting your elderly father over for your kids B-Day, only to have him appear younger than you and talk like a woman.  I will no longer use Cupid's Corner to find partners, and it was literally the only reason I bought the pack.  I will go back to the "old ways": find a household of singles on the gallery, add them to my town, then see who I meet and connect with in the world.  So irritated I ever bought Love Struck - it's ruining/breaking up all my relationships because we didn't show affection for one day AND any Cupid's Corner picks end up bugged!