[ROM] Infatuate Spell: 'No valid target' when there should be plenty

Well, I can at least say Lovestruck isn't the problem.  Never bought that one as everyone i paid attention to said it broke to many things.  I don't have seasons either simply because I never liked its earlier incarnations.  But I have the same issue with the infatuate spell.  Trying to remember for sure, but I think it happened after the royal event, or installation of the Royalty & Legacy pack.  Just my opinion.  But the problem exists with or without mods, and without mods I've tried deleting everything that caches the tuning files and un-installing and re-installing ROM as well. No luck.

{edit} - note that what follows is mostly hearsay, as I've only been testing 5 min before coming back here, but it seems legit.
After further trolling the forums it would appear that this is connected to autonomy tunings adjustments in Adventure awaits  that started limiting some autonomy actions to step siblings or in-laws and more tunings to autonomy that requires sims to be secret lovers (or some such)  for autonomous flirting to take place.  These are apparently the same romance eligibility requirements used by the infatuate spell.  Tyjokr has a fix on his patreon page to address the flirting problem that also fixes the Infatuate spell problem.  Not sure bout the rules for posting outside links, but if you google "tyjokr_EABugFixes_BorkedSocialAutonomy" it should be the first link titled MAJOR Bug Fix for Social Autonomy.

I don't know if this works for Mac as I only tested on PC.  I suspect console players are doomed though unless this marketplace thing that's coming makes it possible and creators like Tyjokr participate.