Ideas
I put a post under - Re: [GRO] Children are unable to get help learning to ride a bike because the entire behavior that followed after serveral days of trying to get anyone to help Tamar, upon her request or prompting all adults to help Tamar but never did because the action just canceled itself. Then, out of the blue - no prompting -- The Grandpa 100% autonomously decided to teach Tamar to ride bike... just before bedtime. I didn't stop it..... I just watched the entire event I would call it - play out on it's own. I encourage you to read that post as the whole thing went exactly as I wrote it.... 100% autonomous!! All of it. I was like WOW! 🤯 Now why wouldn't that happen when I wanted it to happen???
But there's so much more. I have autonomony turned off and so many things still happen without prompting. and when I prompt/command them to do something - they don't!