Ideas
This has been a bug that's been around since infants came out if I'm right and there is absolutely no excuse for it to STILL be around. I played two weeks with no mods, a fresh start, just to prove it isn't JUST mods causing issues. It's not, its the game itself, because a majority of bugs still persisted and this is one of them.
I'm so tired of this bug, so very tired of it and risking having the infant taken away just because the parents or teens just stare at the starving stinky infant instead of picking them up. EA, you said you were going to spend a few weeks fixing bugs right? Don't spend those weeks throwing shade at modders when you're supposed to be fixing bugs. Especially when those bugs have been reported time and time again by your players, both those who go without mods and those who use them.