Toddlers/Infants don't age up with cake

I had an issue last night with cake aging and only toddlers but a little different. The action to help blow out candles only flashed up for a second in the queue for the mum and vanished, I tried it over and over again.. I tried asking for help blowing out the candles from the toddler and every time it failed to queue. I put that cake in the trash made another and put it back on the same counter as the previous and it failed again, this time the option to blow out candles was grayed out and unclickable so I had to move the cake around all my counters randomly until I put it on one where it let me blow the candles out and age up the toddler. 

Also after the action of blowing out the candles was done my toddler walked out of the house and all the way to the front garden just to end up outside on the other side of the wall inside the fence boundary to directly where the counter was placed inside the house and aged up there. And this happened twice because my sim had twins that day. Maybe that's a reason why kids are teleporting while aging up?

(I'm on PS4, no in game cheats, no mods, no CC used)