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I think this is the problem being seen: edit: Never cc or mod, ever ! Win 11, PC
I pushed forward as I needed a child to do the event. So I just took screen shots along the way cause I felt this was so wrong!!! If we had been at home just the 2 parents and toddler, then toddler would not have been able to age up! Neither of Tamar's parents were involved in her birthday party except to give gifts and compliments (reported on another bug thread already open).
Tamar got a gold party but is getting buff's now as though she hosted the part herself!!! see the next 3 pictures.
3 Buff's are coming and going. 1 uncomfortable, 1 sad, and 1 embarrassed - all are for the person(s) who hosted the party!!!! Tamar's Dad hosted the party - he has not gotten any of the negative buff's and what more crazy - it was a gold birthday party!
I hope this helps.