@salteii Please do test without mods or custom content, just in case the issue really is that simple. Move your entire Sims 4 folder out of Documents\Electronic Arts and onto your desktop, and when you launch the game, a clean folder will spawn with no content. Don't add anything to it; just start a new save and see whether it runs normally. Let me know either way.
There are also a number of failed Windows updates in your dxdiag. These may or may not have anything to do with the Sims 4 issues, but they should be addressed anyway. Start by running a couple of basic checks of your Windows system files. Here's how:
- Hit Windows key-X
- Choose either “PowerShell (Administrator)” or “Command prompt (Administrator),” whichever option is offered
- Inside the window that appears, copy and paste “DISM.exe /Online /Cleanup-image /Restorehealth” without quotes into the window, and enter
- The system will start validating soon. If it throws an error, please list it here
- After it reaches 100%, hit Windows key-X again
- Again, choose “PowerShell (Administrator)” or “Command prompt (Administrator)”
- Inside the window, copy and paste “sfc /scannow” without quotes into the window, and enter
- Post the message you receive here
Restart your computer, and run any pending Windows updates: hit Windows key-i, select Update & Security, and click the button to check for updates.
Your dxdiag also lists one crash of the graphics driver, and although it's not necessarily from Sims 4, the next step would be installing a new driver. Still, try the other steps first, to see if they're enough. You'd need to do a clean uninstall and reinstall of the driver, which is a bit of a process; the other steps are easier.