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Re: My sims can’t do romantic reactions

@JodieS761  Is the social interaction option Romance gone? If you have each of them active, do they get the Romance interaction menu when clicking on other sims?

If you have mods and CC: cut the mod folder out of The Sims 4 folder, and put it somewhere for safe keeping. Delete the localthumbcache.package in The Sims 4 folder. Do a repair in Origin. Does it work now?

I read a couple of reports on teen being promised and then unable to get married; but could not find any proper bug report on it. You can look yourself here though:
https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/READ-FIRST-Compiled-list-of-reported-Issues/m-p/3445209#M103628

The workaround I found for non-modded games was to use the social Ask To Be Just Friends, and then level up their relationship again, making the Propose option to appear.

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  • JodieS761's avatar
    JodieS761
    6 years ago

    @DonroaAkashu Thanks for the help, but when the girl interacts with other males she can’t be romantic either except for one other boy that she was flirty with once and when I tap onto her romantic relationships only her boyfriend comes up yet she can’t ask him on a date! However the boyfriend can be romantic with anyone but her! Is the girlfriend the problem??

    I might just have to break them up and move on

  • DonroaAkashu's avatar
    DonroaAkashu
    Seasoned Ace
    6 years ago

    @JodieS761  

    If you use the saving option Save As, naming it Test for instance, you can experiment, and if it doesn't work you can just load your old save again.

    Other workarounds I found:

    Switch active household to any other, play them for a little while, then switch back.

    Move the girlfriend out into another household, for instance in Manage World view, play for a while, and then move the girlfriend back.

    Make a new The Sims 4 folder, and see if the problem goes away. Here is a good description on how to do it. Only copy your saves to the new folder, to begin with, just to test. Your old folder and all the files will be safe where they are.
    https://sims4.crinrict.com/eng/2014/09/resetting-the-game-to-factory-settings-without-reinstalling/


    If you want to share your save, I can try to figure it out. You can upload it to a sharing site and PM me a link.

    Let me know if I need to clarify anything.

  • JodieS761's avatar
    JodieS761
    6 years ago

    Hi @DonroaAkashu I have tried moving out the girlfriend and playing for a while, but she still can’t do any romantic actions with anyone, and I’m not sure how to access any of the cc or mods or even saving my sims 4 world to a folder. 
    if you don’t mind could I share my save, because I’m pretty useless at all this and I’m not really sure how to fix it other than the game play methods you’ve told me. How do I upload it to a sharing site? Thanks again.

  • DonroaAkashu's avatar
    DonroaAkashu
    Seasoned Ace
    6 years ago

    @JodieS761  

    No one is useless at it, it's all in communication and experience. 🙂

    You can use Google Drive, if you have it?

    Log into your Google Drive account/gmail account. You'll find it by just searching google drive in a web browser, or from within your gmail-account etc.

    Choose New on the top left-side, and then File upload.

    From the pop-up window navigate to where The Sims 4 folder is. It is always located in the Documents folder and then Electronic Arts folder.

    Go into the The Sims 4 folder, and then into the folder saves. Sort them on latest made/changed, if you have many, or haven't done so before, to make sure you upload the right one; and choose to open the save. You'll find it in Google Drive window, and there is also a little pop-up window that it is done uploading. Right-click on the file icon, and then click Share in the menu. Make sure the sharing options is set to Anyone with a link... (and not OFF). Copy the link there, and paste it into a PM to me on AHQ.

    I hope that covers it, but just let me know if I need to clarify or give more details. I also found an article with descriptions and further links:
    https://support.google.com/drive/answer/2424368?co=GENIE.Platform%3DDesktop&hl=en


    Here is a list of other sharing sites:
    https://www.computerworld.com/article/3262636/top-10-file-sharing-options-dropbox-box-google-drive-onedrive-and-more.html#slide1

    For future knowledge, here are some descriptions on how to:

    Making a new folder:
    The link I posted in my previous post is a good description, with screenshots. Another way of describing it is:
    Find your The Sims 4 folder, in Documents>Electronic Arts. Right-click on it, and choose Rename. Add any word to it, for instance Play, so that it is now named The Sims 4Play. Start the game. You don't have to load more than to the main menu. Then exit the game, you don't have to save it. Now there is a new folder in Documents>Electronic Arts next to your old one. The new one is named The Sims 4. The game only reads/start/open the one named exactly The Sims 4, and so only the content in that one is visible when in-game. The other content is safe within the renamed folder. So you can have many folders with different content, by just renaming them, adding and retracting words. I have 15 at the moment, named The Sims 4Build; The Sims 4Play; The Sims 4Test etc. The one I want to load at the moment I rename back to just The Sims 4 and then start the game. You can copy any files from your The Sims 4Play folder, and paste it into the equivalent folder in The Sims 4 folder; and it will show up in-game. When you have problems in the game, this is a good way of making sure there is nothing with the user files in The Sims 4 folder creating the issues. And by copying and moving over only one type of file at a time, by process of elimination the problem can potentially be located. A lot of problems comes from mods and CC, so eliminating them first, if they are used, is best. The blog I linked above have a lot of different infoposts on the game.

    Repair in Origin:
    Log into Origin while it's online. Open My Game Library. Right-click on the picture/icon for The Sims 4. Choose Repair in the drop-down menu. Wait till all the packs you own are done, there is a little window at the bottom left of the Origin interface for the process. Restart Origin by logging out of it. Sometimes doing a repair twice will give a different result than just one. What it does is updating the program game files from EA servers (not the ones in your user folder which is The Sims 4 folder); and it is good to try when there are issues with the game.

    Sorry for the long post!

  • YTBellaKitten's avatar
    YTBellaKitten
    5 years ago

    Im testing it, buuuut, now that i moved my mods OUT, All my Mods aren't there in the folder i moved!!! ☹️

    i ment i moved them all out of my sims folder

    I just saw! all my mods are back!


    @DonroaAkashu It still doesn't work. My issue:
    So I have a save. that has Abel *My boy sim*
    and Gordy *The Girl Sim*
    So, I want to use the romance interaction but, its not there,
    for some reason When i click on other girls From Gordy's point
    I have the interactions, When I click girls from Abel's point
    No interations other than: friendly, Mean, funny, and mischief
    When I click on other boys from Abel's Point, Nothing shows other than those either. What am i doing wrong??
    What I did (It still dont work)
    I have Aprox. 1,600 Mods. I moved them all of (The Sims 4)
    Removed the Local.Thumbcache,
    Repaired the game,
    And then I moved all my mods back in,
    I opened sims4, And Nothing Had Changed

    Also, They aren't Boyfriend, girlfriend. Nor Engaged, or Married, When I started the save it was like this

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