Apex cross progression, EA's 6 month unlink freeze? HELP

let me start by saying i was never made aware of the account merger before the 26th and i had to find out from a random tiktok so first off thanks for no notifications in emails or anything. I was a day 1 player and have well passed level 500 on my main PS account but after getting a pc i played up to level 40 and stopped i saw cross progression had finally come into the game. didnt know that i was not able to unlink and link an account and keep all of my stuff. so in order for me to unlink my PSN from EA I have to wait 6 months in order to ljust to unlink and link it back to my secondary account? that doesnt seem right. we should be able to merge EA accounts if we have all of the necessary info to do it. but im just looking to get a TECH WIZ at EA to help me shorten the 6 month freeze before im allowed to unlink. i have spent well over $1000+ and 4 years to get my heirlooms, skins, legends, packs. etc... please anybody with the ability to, please help all i want to do is game with my stuff on my PC. worst part is when i went to log onto my PS for the first time in over a year it was wiped out except 2 legendary skins that but not the champions and it was replaced with the lvl 44 account from my pc

i have All information needed on my end to help anyway i can.