Origin in game overlay

Origin in game overlay

I have a major issue, well in my opinion it is a major issue. I have had to disable origin in game overlay for apex as it would cause my system to crash and reboot entirely. I went through many, many, too many possible solutions found in online forums, none of which helped. Eventually i disabled the origin overlay and all my crashing came to an end. I now, however have an issue with this as i cannot see in game party requests from friends, previous teammates etc. i now have to add the person as a friend first, and then only i can join on them or send them an invite, if they send me an invite as a friend, i can only see this by alt tabing back to origin and then accept from friends tab there.

Any info or fix for this?

TIA