It is a little relief that I am not the only one , it gives me a little hope that it might be possible to fix it.
Now to the facts,
1. I did check and there is a ban on the steam account. I was able to unlink it and then it linked back for some reason and i asked then to help me and they said they cant do anything. That steam Apex account said it has been played for 2 hours in January 2022. But! Respawn confirmed that it would NOT affect my Playstation account if cross progression happened. So i was like alright im happy on my Playstation, i dont need anything else
2. Right after the cross progession appeared its unable to find a game., I stay in Queue endlessly. Which literally makes the game unplayable and broken.
3. If I do find a game after hours (only GunRun will work) then i am in a PC ONLY lobby (on PLAYSTATION!) and there is only people with Asian letters. I tried to ask what server they are from but unfortunately no one answered. Its definately not my region though.
My conclusion is that accidently(?) some restriction did take over, or something glitched. Its definately not normal to be pushed in a PC lobby on a Playstation console. That also means the Playstation account is not fully banned. but it has some weird glitch/Ghost ban on it.