Exploitative and insulting design, for ADHD brains?

The maps are small and packed with players and action no matter which game mode you choose, it's very fast-paced and doesn't give you a moment to use your brain. The timer between matches is also very short to keep you hooked. And then there's the Custom Search feature where you can choose which map and game mode you want to play, but if you're in queue for more than 3 seconds it will say "f*ck what you want, we're gonna decide what's best for you" and put you on a map you did not select.
It feels so... exploitative. It's like it was designed exclusively for people with unmedicated ADHD. It's so infuriating!
I've got stuff to do on a specific map but I literally can't get that map because the system won't let me sit in queue for more than 3 seconds out of my own free will. If I wanted to expand the search because the queue is too long then I could do that myself, it's certainly not for our benefit that the system works like this.
BF6 would've been a lot better if EA didn't do the thing that EA does.