As for the Recon drones, when I was playing Battlefield 2042 it was common for Recon to put two or three C5 charges on their drone -- I did it all the time -- and fly it into an armed vehicle. Kaboom! The only saving grace for the enemy was that the Recon drone had a fairly limited range.
I have used Recon drones a bit in Battlefield 6 and the range is still fairly limited. So, if you sense a Recon drone buzzing toward you be aware that the operator is fairly close and you should just bug out of that area real fast. (Honestly, I don't think there are 15 Recon drones chasing you, but, whatever.
As for the IFV, I love it. First off, you should be in Engineer loadout if you're going to drive tanks. Secondly, use the Vehicle Supply Crate and stick it in a place where you can rapidly get back to it.
First Principle -- Tanks are for ranged attack! Do not get up close because you will quickly find an Engineer guy shooting three RPGs up your tailpipe! Hang back and stay safe.
And one thing that I repeatedly noticed and it's a huge mistake and that is that some drivers think a tank is to drive up to an objective and just wait there. Big mistake! You will find plenty of enemy Engineers around with RPGs who would just love to blow you up and have already loaded the place with anti-vehicle mines, and some Recon guys who have C4 explosives already to throw on your tank. Again, kaboom!
So, no, just no. Just because you're having a tantrum, EA DICE is not going to change the game to make you, personally, happy.