Why I (STILL) love playing BFV and absolutely hate playing BF6

While it does not solve ANY of the problems you mention, I do want to say you should give Escalation a try. It’s a great variation on Conquest, and leads to tenser end games in more matches. Plus you get to rediscover some maps as some objs are in different spots or redrawn to promote play in a different area. 

For me Escalation is a highlight of this iteration of BF. I like to play all-out warfare, which switches between Conquest and Escalation from match to match.