BF4 crashing on Series X

loved the bf6 open beta so much i decided to download bf4 again. for some reason anytime i join a server, while my headset is turned on, i crash to the dashboard. if my headset isn't on, it loads just fine and i can play the game. anyone ever experience this? anyone have a solution? these seems so **bleep** weird to be happening while playing a 12 year old game on the newest xbox console.