Comebacks and DDA

The theory of making the game fun with DDA is so ridiculous yet so obvious. Specifically in fut champs. It's been happening for years. I go 2 goals up, they come back and go 2 goals up. Next things my players feel incredible and I score 5 goals in 30 in game minutes. All this just for me to lose anyway as my players yet again miss everything, can't pass, stopped run etc. I've had 6 games in a row decided by a last minute winner in either the 90th of the 120th minute, both going for or against me. It's not fun even when I'm the one who benefits as it's so clear and obvious as to who will be benefit from the last 15 mins of each game. Please just go back to the game at the start. This is not one bit fun and I put so much time into this game for nothing and I'm more than likely just going to stop soon like many others already have. Genuinely sad