Why can't Ryder be actually mean?
Okay, I was really glad when they said they'll get rid of the paragon-renegade system. It was too extreme, paragon easily got too high-and-mighty, and renegade sometimes turned into genocidal maniac. The new system could've solved this - come on, even Inquisition had it right. But now Ryder seems to be really understanding by default...
Yes, sometimes we can disagree with squadmates or random people - but only respectfully. Why can't I tell Suvi that her faith-science views are ridiculous? Why can't I tell Lexi to simply shut up & deal with it when she complains about her job being already too hard without me doing this or that?
I could name many other occasions where this bothered me, I just don't want to spoil anything, I think you get the point.