I can't play the game how I like

anytime I try to set objects down instead of having other people disable my objects it's always my objects have to be thrown out someone else's objects can be placed down and even if I disable them I still can't put my object there that I want to skate every single time I've tried to just skate in this game and have fun it is literally ruined cuz I can't skate the way I want to with the objects that I've earned in the game and it's really frustrating and annoying that there's literally 5 to 20 people who will end up in my way even though I'm skating in a spot that had zero people to begin with. every single time I go to play the game I can't cuz if I find a spot where there's no one skating I end up with close to 20 people all messing with my objects people don't understand. like this game is not fun I don't want to play with my friend I don't want to play with other people I want to play it and relax listen to music and I don't want to have 5 to 20 people constantly getting in front of me throwing objects and stuff cuz they need to play this game as unrealistic as they can some of us want to play this game as a skateboarder who doesn't have time to actually skateboard and we want to do slightly unrealistic stuff sometimes we want to do unrealistic stuff but we don't want to have to deal with 5 or 20 players all putting objects in the way so we can't even skate at all