@gpetv0boaux9
I'm still unclear on a couple of things. Are you trying to build the lot with it set as a Residential Rental or as a regular Residential?
When I built my first residential rental, I had much the same experience you are reporting except for the walls not placing. Extreme lag, not saving, or if it would save, it would go into an endless loading screen when I tried to go to Manage Worlds afterwards. I also had issues with the curser jumping when trying to draw walls. In fact, I had to start over 3 times before I could even get the lot to save at all. I think the walls not placing for you is due to lag based on the other issues you're having. Not sure on that but it sure seems that way to me.
I found that to get anything done, I had to build with the lot set to residential. After it failed to save the 2nd time, I changed the lot venue to residential and was able to build and save. Even then, it was slow going because of lag. But, the next day, when I reloaded the lot to work on it some more, it did go back to normal, and I could move along with the build a lot faster and eventually finished it. Once I figured out that I had to build as residential, the next residential rental went a lot faster. I didn't have the lag and saving issues I had with the first one.
Based on my experience, I'm pretty sure that there is something different about build with the residential rentals. I've only had these type issues when trying to build with the lot set as that venue type. I've done a half dozen builds since of several other venue types and none of them had the issues I had when trying to build with the lot set as a residential rental. I have no idea what though or why it is that way.
So, I suggest you try building your lot as a residential and when you've got everything done, change the lot venue to residential rental, assign the rooms to the apartments and then save the lot to your Library and then save the save, not save and exit to Manage Worlds/Main Menu/Quit, just save first then exit the lot via your preferred method. When you start the build or resume what you've managed to already get done, it might be useful to set the lot to residential (which it seems you've already done), save, exit the game and reload to clear whatever is in memory from whatever is happening with the residential rental venue type based on when I saw with mine.
Have you tried to build something else, like a gym, museum, generic, restaurant, etc. and are you having the same issues there? If you have tried to build another venue type, and didn't get the lag, wall placement and other issues you've reported, then the issue is with the venue. If you are still having the same issues with other venue types, then there're a couple of things you can try to see if you can improve the situation. Those are: delete the localthumbcache file and run a repair through Origin or the EA App, whichever you use to access the game.
And if none of that works, come back and we can go from there.
Hope this helps.