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TygerNight's avatar
6 years ago

Family Oriented Trait trouble

I made a Sim with the FOT to marry my stay-at-home Dad Caleb. He had 2 sets of twins at the time and was shortly abducted by aliens and now there are 3 sets of twins. Full house. I got Caleb a job and she's now the stay-at-home parent.

And she's constantly got a Sad +1 from 'Missing Family'! This is obviously annoying me greatly. 😠

I'm on a PS4 and have most of the dlc though not all. I really don't expect my FO Sim to be missing family when she spends all day feeding/changing/rocking 4 infants and teaching 2 toddlers. That's idiotic and frankly frustrating as it affects her moods constantly. 

How does this get resolved? 

13 Replies

  • PugLove888's avatar
    PugLove888
    Hero (Retired)
    6 years ago

    @TygerNight, you were given some great options to counte act the sadness moodlet  that Family Oriented Sims get by @SheriGR , as well as what I said in my first post.  However, I think you are more upset about the fact that this moodlet even exists! 
    My theory on why it exists is that it makes it more realistic and helps balance out all the positive moodlets that your Sims would get if there were no drawbacks.  Most, if not all personalities have drawbacks.  Sims with the Athletic trait get upset if they can't exercise, Kleptomaniacs get tense if they haven't' stolen something in a while, but sometimes feel guilty when they do steal something, etc. 


    But I have another theory with the Family Oriented trait... it isn't just loneliness for a family member because that would be satisfied by any family member being present.  My guess is that Sims with this trait want all of the family close by them!   🤨  So it wouldn't matter if one or two children of your Sim was present... they might all have to be present to satisfy this moodlet! ❤️


    So, try to see if having all of the household in the same room helps at all... Check to see if the moodlet had arrows pointing downward to indicate that the time on this moodlet is becoming lesser at a much faster rate.  Also, I haven't tested this yet, but the moodlet might go away instantly.  It's worth a try!  And if it doesn't' work, try the fixing your sad moodlet  or overriding it with positive moodlets with the suggestions that @SheriGR and I gave you! 😇

  • @PugLove888Sorry to bump this old thread but Maui - my Sim I mentioned in other threads - has the Family-Oriented trait and he just came back from work with the Missing Family moodlet. I had him talk to my Sim and it went away (being replaced by the Family Time moodlet)! 😃 Not sure if it was because I had him do the "Complain about Problems" interaction first but it went away after he did that. ☺️ 

    If you've already found this out then I'll just leave this here for any other user who has trouble with this trait. 😉

  • PugLove888's avatar
    PugLove888
    Hero (Retired)
    5 years ago

    @AprilTheSimmer96 , thanks for the info! 😇 I haven't tested yet, as I have a lot of things I want to test and I get sidetracked! 😅  So your suggestions are worth noting! 🙌