MCCC Help

For whatever reason, all the channels are locked for me on discord.

I have autonomous flirting disabled. I was sick and tired of my sims who are already in relationships flirting with other people and making their SO jealous. And even though it's been disabled, they still flirt! I restarted the game to make sure the changes were made, but the sims still flirt with everyone. Literally some random townie came through my sim's fence, flirted with her while she was in the pool, and then went into her house. I had to delete him! Why does this keep happening?

I must be a noob. It's the darn Free Love NAP.