Sim grayed out after returning, can't load save

Yea since the update yesterday mind is acting up too. When my sims leaves the lot and comes back, the lot loads but it shows the sims gray like he's gone but it says he's at home. I have to do task manager just to turn the game off and when I try to load it again it just sits on the load screen forever. I have also tried to repair the game, clear cache, etc. Nothing is working and it's super frustrating!