Close Knit/People Person lifestyles need and update

I'm not a fan of the Lifestyles. Almost every sim is guaranteed to get the People Person lifestyle and then all it does is make my sims sad. In my game I play rotational so every time I switch to a different family they have like a million friends that they made while I wasn't playing with them and as those friends start peeling off one by one because I can't be bothered to keep up to so many friendships they get sad. It's like an endless cycle of my sims being sad because they lost friends that I didn't want them to have in the first place.

I even downloaded a mod that made the amount of sims required higher and still all my family got this the people lifestyle.