I feel so dumb, I am finally playing with my toddlers and want to make some friends. I have two couples, the adults all know each other and have met each others toddlers but when I play the toddlers, ...
Thanks @BMSO, I have them in a play date now. When I am active as a toddler and I click on a toddler from the other family I am still getting the option to "talk to stranger".