I'm fighting this in one of my households, too. They are filthy rich and have one of those rock climbing machines in their back yard. Problem is with all of the rain, and then the snow, starting off with a blizzard over Winterfest, they lost their butler. A new guy comes to the lot and he is drawn like a mosquito to light to the broken sparks-flying deathtrap. And yes, he also died. Now, they have two tombstones out back. This seems to trouble the teens and their mother more than it does their dad. I went ahead and sent the only daughter out back to release their spirits. She's very strongly clairvoyant, this one, and she knew something needed to be done after a couple of nights of being haunted and fighting the constant plumbing breakage. They now have a third guy taking over. I had the eldest teen call him over and direct him to serve a meal to keep him from the same Fate as the other two. But, alas, the girl is still mourning the loss of two good Sims.
Her second eldest brother tried to console her, thinking she was upset because he beat her in the Karaoke Contest. The redhaired boy next to them is the eldest in the family.
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