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EnkiSchmidt's avatar
9 months ago

Love triangles

Tell me about your love triangles and how (if) you resolved them!

I’m not normally into infidelity stories, especially not with my Detroit sims, whose relationships I curate and protect with an iron fist. In the Star Wars save I’m currently immersed in I’m more lenient and so this happened:

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I created a household of five sims that go on adventures together. The leftmost sims, Finn and Poe, are in a relationship, but not yet engaged. The middle sim, Armitage, is the group’s sponsor. The others don’t like him and he can’t stand them, but they have a shared goal, he has the money and they the skills.

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Armitage is Unflirty, but it so happened that when I write the captions for my screenshots, I tend to give Armitage and Poe dialogue that comes dangerously close to flirting. None of that translated back into the game…

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…but I still felt the need to shoot a short scene about Finn and Armitage discussing the situation.

They sat together and chatted for a while, and this chat resulted in an “Absolute adoration” sentiment for Armitage about Finn. The tooltip also said “Armitage wants only the best for Finn”, so, problem solved? The unflirty sim, who now feels protective over Finn, would never steal that one’s boyfriend, right?

“Hold my beer”, said the game.

Yesterday the group was at George Cahill’s fortress in Strangerville, where he served them breakfast and wine to celebrate their first foray into crater lab. So far, so well, but suddenly Finn got a Flirty moodlet from being close to Poe.

Hey, great, maybe I can have them exchange engagement rings now?

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What actually happened was that Finn autonomously flirted with Armitage. And to add insult to injury, Armitage accepted (probably because of his sentiment). He got tense from that (it’s actually really cute how unflirty sims struggle with their own feelings like this), but the moodlet explicitly stated that this came “from a succesful flirt with an unflirty sim”. They have a romance bar now, and a pretty strong one for a single flirt, too!

Well, Poe is hot-headed, so I decided he’d challenge Armitage to a heated duel (“But Finn started!” – Only because you EXIST!”).

During this duel one of the onlookers, Rose, got almost hurt – sims move around a lot during those lightsaber fights, so I should have seen it coming and positioned the audience in a larger distance.

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Look at them, locked like this – Poe’s blade almost goes through Rose’s shoulder. Armitage is blocking, but the moment he falters, BOTH their blades will hit Rose. (And neither of them is actually force sensitive, so they don’t even have a real idea where exactly their weightless blades are at any given moment.)

And Rose in turn is Dazed/tipsy, so she’s not even realizing what’s going on.

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So where will they go from here?

At the very least I’ll change Armitage’s Unflirty trait to Proper – he’s warming up to the idea of intimacy.

And with all of this, I haven’t even mentioned that according to their backstories, Rose used to have feelings for Finn and Finn for Rey (rightmost sim in the first screenshot), or that Rey is in a “will they or will they not” relationship with Armitage’s rival, Ben, who recently joined the household. (Poor Ben falls from one temper tantrum into the next with the other five's antics).
  • I moved the BFF household to Tartosa, turned them into plantsims, and enacted Free Love.
    Now they are a happy Y-shaped triad relationship whose lives consist mainly of going in the sun and going in the water
    It's very relaxing
  • @mightysprite That's my favorite outcome for the BFFs. Well, not the plantsim-part, I never thought of that, but them forming a throuple. That, or finding love outside the household. I couldn't ever break them up.
  • Brd709's avatar
    Brd709
    Seasoned Veteran
    The only affair storyline i did was with my sim self's late son Tommy. He married Miki Akiyama right out of high school in 1980. By 1985 Tommy had a career change from coffee shop owner to developing a career in politics. His political advisor Amira grew quite fond of Tommy and Tommy grew quite fond of her. They had a few romantic interludes while at work and at one point was going to leave Miki for Amira.

    Tommy got stressed from hiding his affair with Amira that he decided to end things with her and confess all to Miki. Once Tommy had confessed all to Miki, Tommy dropped dead right afterwards:

    https://i.imgur.com/NB4hbHt.png

    Miki pleaded to grim to spare Tommy but on this day, Grim wasn't in a sparing mood:
    https://i.imgur.com/4EZ34w0.png
  • With a lot of different households, this does sometimes happen because not all relationships last forever. A lot of them do and there are plenty of stable, happy families and couples in my game who only have eyes for their One and Only. Generally if they get married, they plan to stay together through everything and usually that means they stay devoted to their spouse.

    I would say that occasionally things get rocky or someone comes along who hits it off so obviously with a sim that things go differently. It's not something that I try to push them into at all but if it happens then I tend to accept that is the case and they figure out how to deal with it. There are also couples that just divorce and start over. That tends to happen with some of the pre-mades. At one point I played with Jeb Harris's family which was kind of a comedic household of ridiculousness. The dad was kind of a not great character and the mom stood up to him and kicked him out. Now, she is figuring out how to have a life of her own while raising her kids.

    I would say that love triangles are a lot more common among my younger sims while they are figuring things out. There are a few households where the longtime married couples have drifted apart over time. If that happens, yes, they might end up with a love triangle. Like I said though, a lot of them are happily living their lives with someone they are completely committed to. There are just a lot of households with various outcomes rather than a goal of specifically breaking any couple up. I sometimes go with the flow of how sims interact with each other, so they can spontaneously fall in love when they aren't trying or they can stay focused on their special someone.