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DizzyDi33's avatar
5 years ago

No romance with single and lovin it?

My two sims who dont live together both have single and lovin it lifestyles and when they do flirty interactions they dont have a romantic bar, do i have to get rid of the lifestyle or will it change on its own?

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  • I don't think sims with single and loving it can't build the romance but that it is harder for them to actually build romance. I see it more as a lifestyle for sims who don't want to be in a relationship or build romantic ties to anyone.

    I could be wrong since I haven't played with that lifestyle yet. Have your sims watch romantic shows and movies it should help push them out of the lifestyle.
  • I’ve turned off lifestyles for now. I’m not feeling them in my game. They just seem to make my sims unhappy. :#

    "VentusMatt;c-17731930" wrote:
    I don't think sims with single and loving it can't build the romance but that it is harder for them to actually build romance. I see it more as a lifestyle for sims who don't want to be in a relationship or build romantic ties to anyone.

    I could be wrong since I haven't played with that lifestyle yet. Have your sims watch romantic shows and movies it should help push them out of the lifestyle.


    I had a teenager sim get the single and loving it lifestyle and it bothered me. She wasn’t single and loving it. She was just young and focusing on other things in her life more than she was romance and the weird thing was I had just had her start a romance up with a boy the day before she got the lifestyle. It made no sense to me that she got that lifestyle.
  • I think some of the lifestyle shouldn't be acquired automatically, especially this particular lifestyle. There should be at least a self interaction that this Sims wanted to be single for the time being and he she will acquire the said lifestyle instantly. If Sims is unlucky with love life they shouldn't have this lifestyle acquired automatically for them just because theyre still single.
  • exactly its like if you start a game with a single sim and you focus on getting skills etc up then it thinks oh they arent romantic they can have this lifestyle, i did the lifestyle coaching to get my male sim out of that lifestyle then had him reveal crush to his female crush and it went up, also dont think the flirty mood comes up either

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